About Domina Anne Shirley

My name is Domina Anne Shirley and I am here to bring wholeness to who you are as a person.

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I am a Professional Dominatrix who Dommes you into higher self-esteem and leadership. I offer somatic psychology that is kink and BDSM centered to help you live a fully expressed, empowered and embodied life. I am also a Kink Facilitator for somatic practitioners, service providers and coaches who want to incorporate kink and BDSM in their practices from a heathy and ethical place.

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I support you in uncovering your deepest and darkest desires, so you can create a powerful and purposeful life, work and relationships. With years of experience in the BDSM and kink community, I have mastered the art of pleasure and pain. I believe in creating a safe and consensual environment for my clients, where they can explore their deepest desires and fantasies.​

My work supports you in exploring your emotional, physical, mental, energetic, sexual and spiritual edges.

What is an edge and what does it mean to explore your edges?

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An edge is your window of tolerance or that place where you start to feel some discomfort and either want to run away, ignore and avoid it or push through it, trying to endure it only to find yourself fighting with it. Or, it might look like not knowing what to do, so you do nothing at all and freeze up. It could even look like taking over spaces, care taking or taking on more responsibility than needed and holding others as a way to dissociate from a situation and avoid the discomfort by fawning.

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I support you at exploring your window of tolerance without pushing you too far in any direction, so that you can gently stretch yourself into holding more without stepping into harmful strategies and patterns. It is through the work of edging while giving you the skills to integrate and resolve the trauma you experienced that brings you into a state of embodied leadership and a life that feels safe, secure, sustainable, supported and stable.

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Together, we meet the trauma you experienced and learn to befriend it, so it no longer has power over life, work and relationships. 

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Domina Anne Shirely is pro-lgbtqia+, pro-trans, pro-Black, pro-s3x worker, pro-human rights, pro-choice, and is very vocal about her values as a pansexual woman married to a queer identified veteran and 9/11 first responder who also shares her values on this. If you do not align with these values, please look to work with someone else.